Monday, December 17, 2012

Feeling Rejected

Lets Face it..... We all have felt it in our lifetime.

Whether we have felt rejected by the family, friend, boyfriends.... We all have felt this horrible pain.

Some people are able to just accept rejection and blow it off their shoulder and move on with their life and focus on those people that don't make them feel rejected. Lets just say I wish I was one of these people.

But unfortunately I am one of those people that will get very emotional over the feeling of rejection.
I will let it bottle up inside of me for a while then I will just become very miserable and mope around the place not achieving anything at all. Until I pluck up the courage to confront the person/people about it and more often than not it gets resolved. I wish though that I instead of letting it boil up inside of me until I become so miserable that I have to talk to them about it, I would skip the miserable stage and jump straight to the confronting stage and it is something I am trying to work on.

What I am trying to say is that if you are like me and you let rejection get to you, I want you to try change with me. I want you to try confronting people so that we can by past that miserable stage and be happier human beings and not have that awful heavy feeling within our stomachs.

And I know that sometimes you get those not so nice people who either bag you out for being over paranoid (which I have come across before) or those people that where purposely ignoring you because they couldn't be bothered or even those down write rude people that are no point you being friends with anyway who think is funny to personally and purposely leave you out of things, but the majority of the time it is not those people but people who care and love you and would hate the fact that they have made you feel rejected.

I am also trying to encourage you to speak to people because I don't want you loosing friends because of a miscommunication and they have felt rejected or you have felt rejected and their for you end up falling out before you have even had the chance to discuss it. Maybe their was a reason why you where not invited such as they didn't think you would like that style of music they where playing at that concert or they knew you didn't have enough money to be going out so thought not to invite you because they did not want you feeling bad.

I hope I have help at least one person through this blog post, because then it was worth me posting this.

This has also helped me because at this very point of time I am feeling very rejected and alone and as soon as I have finished typing this, I am going to go talk to that person and sort things out.

Thank you so much

Yours Sincerely

Charli Udell

xoxox

This Is Me and My Beautiful Life

Good Day to who ever may be reading this.....

I have decided to start blogging, and I am so excited because I adore writing.

This blog will mainly be about fashion and all things beauty, as well that take up most of my life.

Makeup, fashion, skincare and hair are my hobby and I love it with a passion. It is so amazing to be able to express yourself through out these outlets. It gives you confidence to be able to walk down the street knowing you look your best.

My fashion sense is very much Rocker-chic but I like to mix it up.

I also believe that your personality a persons main beauty so I will also be blogging about feelings, emotions and everything along those lines.

So basically anything that I want to blog about, I will.

I really hope that you follow this blog and support me; it would mean the world to me.

Thanks you so much

Yours Sincerely

Charli Udell

xoxox